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Hey guys, today, I'm going to share a few important things.....

Humming

This is the, "Jannat Ki Baharo Se Na Pariyo Ke" step, right?

"No, Moti Se Na Hero Se Na Jewar Se... Moti Se Na Hero Se Na Jewar Se..."

Don't do this! Don't do this! It looks cute when that little kid Gaurav Sitoula does it. It doesn't suit old people. You hardly get 50 Likes on Instagram. Stop dancing on Instagram. It doesn't suit you.

Oh! It's okay. It's okay. I was just kidding. I was just kidding.

Says Kumud's dialog from Devdas (2002).

[Winces] This is impossible. Bearded bald woman.

Btw., I want to tell a few Bollywood celebrities that the way one who cooks is not called a Cooker, one who trolls is not called a Troller. He's called a Troll.

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There was a classmate during my Engineering. I hope he's not watching [chuckles]. He acted like as if he's a girl. There was a long road at Sinhgad College of Engineering, Wadgaon Budruk Campus, on which he used to run while singing a Marathi (female) song. We used to laugh at him. Me and him used to enact Paro and Chandramukhi from Devdas (2002). I used to play Madhuri, and him Aishwarya Rai. We used to say Ashi Hi Banwa Banwi's (Marathi movie) Sachin Pilgaonkar and Laxmikant Berde's all dialogs. But I turned out to be Gay and he was Straight. He was feminine, but he was still a boy, but he was Straight as well.

So, labeling such a small child as Gay is very very wrong. It is like feeding his Mind, "You're Gay! You're Gay!" May be he is not Gay at all. People ask me as to why I care. First of all, if I didn't get divorced at 25, I would've had a child his age. And secondly, they say, "ah, now, we know why your a__ is on fire!" So, all these MEME kinda dialogs have been registered so strongly in the youngsters' Minds that MEMES have become their lives. And there a few so-called Influencers (even on YouTube) that are (like as if) teaching bad words to the young generation. So, these young kids learn all those bad words and come to Instagram and say them there. So, it is very very wrong to, you know, label somebody as like that, because it stays in your Mind.

You should never denigrate or disrespect someone. Is he (Gaurav) forcibly coming into your house and dancing in front of you?

Today's youth is so fortunate that they can scroll YouTube or Instagram for just 10 minutes, and get a very good general idea of what's going on in the world. As compared to our times. There were no mobile phones when I was 15, 16, or 17 years old. If we had a crush on someone (didn't even know the word crush back then) or if we liked someone, it was such a difficult task to write a letter to that person. I used to write I LOVE YOU and all directly, but it was such a difficult task to do, isn't it? Writing a letter and physically handing it over to the intended person. As compared to today, you have the power that you can express yourself to the world or to someone. That is a very big thing. But there's a dialog, isn't it? I forgot the name of the movie. "With great power comes great responsibility." So, using that power in the right way is very important.

One Meme says, "Guys who say that they'll join Gym from tomorrow." So, first of all, Gymming has long-term side-effects. Nobody will tell you that. Right? That is why I have, personally, never stepped foot inside the Gym, because, first of all guys stare at me, and secondly, I like to stay natural as much as possible. So, there's nothing wrong with that.

Another Meme says, "Guys who deactivate Instagram during exams." Such guys only achieve something in their lives.

Another Meme says, "Guys who submit assignments on time." I used to submit assignments before time. I used to research and write additional matter, you know. Classmates used to beg to me to share my assignments (so that they could copy), but I never used to share. That is why, I think, I have achieved a little bit in my life.

Another Meme says, "Guys who always sit on the first bench." What's wrong in that? I have always been a first bencher. From school to Engineering. That is why... I'm not basting. Okay, fine, consider that I'm boasting. I had one house before 30, and two houses before 40. Is there anything wrong with that?

Of course, last benchers (from my class) are, now, in the U.S., but their achievements and different and mine are different. So, it's not about First Bencher vs. Last Benchers. It is about focusing on your own pathetic life.

Today's youngsters say that that is their opinion and that you should agree with them about their discomfort about the Gay Community. Being uncomfortable is one thing, but hating is another thing, isn't it? Don't try to change us via Hate. We are not trying to change you. We are just asking you to not hate us and accept us the way we are. You are not accepting or understanding us. Understanding that is very important.

So, our definition of "normal" is accepting what has been happening so far. We need to realize that what's happening currently is normal.

Let's 'Reverse Engineer' and try to understand why Gaurav or "feminine" dancers are trolled. First of all, they're very fortunate that they're getting the reach on Social Media, but why are they trolled in India? Now, we live in India, so, we will talk about India, not UAE. Laws about these things there are even more retarded and regressive.

So, why are they trolled? Because, being Gay has generally been always considered an abnormality, isn't it? Any Belief that exists is like a wave, isn't it? That wave doesn't just (abruptly) stop. It keeps getting passed on from generations to generations. So, "being Gay is an abnormality" (as per the Belief). Why is it abnormal? That's because when a guy and a girl have sex, a child is born, but when two men have sex, what's the output of that? So, that means that they're having sex for pleasure, and "having sex for pleasure" - whether it is between a guy and a girl or between two guys - has always been considered as a sin or wrong.

If you try to talk about sex with people from the previous generation, they would say, "Yuck" or call it dirty or they would cringe, like as if they fell from the sky. They also did that, which resulted in us being born, and they were also born due to the same thing. However, they did not necessarily do it just for pleasure. They did it for procreation, or to produce children. Basically, a very strong understanding that exists in our (Indian) society is that lust (kaam-vaasna) is not good. And I'm talking about Sex Lust here. Lust can of multiple other things as well. Basically, sex is a natural desire, and sex is addictive. You feel like doing it very often. So, there is a very strong understanding in our society that you should do it only for reproduction and not for fun or pleasure. Now, you'll see that "having sex for pleasure" is not considered dirty or wrong in bigger cities. So, LGBT's inclusivity or acceptance in bigger cities is also higher than the cities that are not big. Therefore, Gaurav (or "feminine" dancers) are trolled.

See, making funny comments is one thing, but even some so-called educated people are making MEMES on him. Basically, one who is confident about his masculinity never cringes on seeing Gay Men. Because he is confident about himself and his heterosexuality. He doesn't care at all - even if a Gay Man comes and sits next to him it won't make any difference. Even if the Gay Man tries to hit on him, he'll be ablt to convey (merely through his eyes) that he's not liking it, because he's confident about being Straight. Men who cringe on seeing Gay Men are the ones who go and write nasty comments on Instagram. What happens as a result of writing bad comments is that you merely show your home's environment to the people online. Basically, this Social Media - instead of using for fun and entertainment - is being used for venting out our frustration, I think. Because one who is content and happy in his life would never troll or write nasty comments on someone, isn't it?

May be, the one you're trolling doesn't even care. However, it can affect some people. The most important reason why you should not write nasty comments, is that if someone is actually Gay, by seeing such trolling online, he'll die just by suffocating inside.

If you have a close friend who is very sweet and who loves you like a real friend, and if he turns out to be Gay, then will you start hating him? Will you start abusing him? Will you unfriend him from Facebook? Or will you understand him like a mature person? and say that I still love you like a friend, no matter who / how you are. It's a choie, isn't it?

So, if an actor does such things i.e. plays the role of a female or crossdresses, then everybody will praise him saying that he's an actor. Means, doing it for Money is allowed, and doing is for Fun is not! Huh! When did Money supercede Happiness?

Me: Please! This is my 'Awaken with Sagar' Channel. Please, please don't come here, and please don't do such things.

If this video stays limited to those who never troll others. Basically, if it doesn't reach those who troll others, then I will consider it as my failure. What can I do, anyway, isn't it? I can just try to say these things from my side, but, as a Viewer, if you LIKE and SHARE this video as much as you can, then, these talks will reach those people who, you know, troll others.

See, if an 18-year-old trolls another 18-year-old, then that guy would ignore it (as a classmate) or take it lightly, however, when that 18-year-old Gay Boy turns 40, and he sees the other guy with his wife and kids, then he tends to doubt himself and his life. So, it is not always about suicide. It feels sad. That sadness STAYS in one's Heart, and carrying that burden throughout one's life is not easy. Living a real life, and giving speeches on YouTube are two very disparate things. So, you know, it is so important that we let people be as they are.

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