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Somewhere, if I find a Gay Man, and I'm Straight, and if I feel tensed on looking at him, then it means that there is a "tiny Gay Man" hidden inside me that I don't want to bring out.

But I don't care at all, because I'm Straight and he's Gay. Why should I care? I am a "REAL man".

Gay Men don't need to understand Straight Men. We have already been doing that. We are doing that. Straight Men need to understand Gay Men.

Information Overdose is a big problem, due to which some youngsters from today's generation have become half-cocked.

There are a few "Deleted Clips" that I've hidden within this video. Once this video gets 100 Likes, the "Deleted Clips" will appear within this video itself. So, keep LIKING and CHECKING [smiles].

How do these Apps work? Be it YouTube or Instagram? Basically, they work on your 'Watch History'. Content is fed to you on your Recommendations or Explore Page (or wherever) on the basis of what you've watched. Sometimes, Homophobic REELS are fed to me, which makes me wonder why that's happening despite me being Homosexual [chuckles]. But that is a good thing in a way, as well. That gives me an opportunity to review them and talk about them.

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Watching another REEL.

How much is he drooling! [snickers]

[meh]

[sniggers]

It's not a homophobic REEL, but... [covers face with shyness]

But I want to say here that... being sexualized is okay. The whole world is sexualized [snickers]... in a way. However, saying that only Gay Men want sex is...

not true.

Hmm... I have a problem with this REEL.

Hums in disappointment.

See, I won't criticize him, and I'm not even saying that the Creator is homophobic or that his intentions aren't good, but I think that... in the end, if he would've also turned Gay, then that would've been sweet. Or if he would've run away from there in fear, then that would've been sweet as well. Or if he would've called his friend to save him, and his friend would also have turned out to be Gay, then that would also have sweet very sweet.

However, what did he do in the end? He cussed him, isn't it? That is not acceptable. That, somewhere, spreads homophobia, isn't it? What happens due to such REELS is that if I (as a straight guy) go through a similar scenario, my instant response would be to cuss the other guy, which is not necessary, isn't it?

First of all, of course, that Gay guy is also at fault. I am probably over-analyzing this, however, it is the Gay guy's fault that he is staring at him so obviously. That should not be done. As I had stated in my 'Faltu' / 'Cheap' video that some Gay guys are also responsible for these things. However, okay, if there is attraction happening, or if someone is looking / staring, then it is fine... I (as a straight guy) don't need to abuse him, isn't it? I should be confident about who I am, and I should just completely ignore.

Unfortunately, there are many homophobic comments below that REEL. One comment is, "Men looking at women is understandable, but men looking at men is weird." Whoever has written that comment, I want to tell her that I have been doing that (looking at) men since 1982. If I am alive today, that is only because there are men in this world, and that I can knit a few dreams by looking at them.

The first half of the year 2018 was the year of musical.ly, isn't it? During that a beloved guy of all of us - whose name I won't take, because then people will say [says Madhuri Dixit's dialog from Devdas (2002) by mistake] that I'm taking his name for mileage. He had made a video on 'Tum to thehre pardesi, saath kya nibhaogay'. He had done this. This is called Limp Wrist. I had immediately made a video on musical.ly asking people not to do the limp wrist movement. What does that mean? It means Erectile Dysfunction, isn't it? That is, first of all, not true. Check our Instagram. Don't! Your Mind will get corrupted, if you visit our Instagram [sniggers], but that is not true at all. That is not how you "become Gay". And secondly, you can do some other step / action as well. You can do a "girly" action as well. That is also fine. But don't do the limp wrist gesture. That is - like - very offensive.

Doing such offensive gestures IS offensive. The problem with today's youngsters is their inability to know the distinction between Right and Wrong due to Information Overdose. That this is right and that is wrong. They think whatever comes to their Minds is correct. And they say, "That's written on Google." Google is not a website. Google is a Search Engine. It searches and presents to you what's written on other websites. So, you cannot consider Google as God and make it the ultimatum of your life, isn't it? You should have an understanding of what's right and what's wrong.

Like there's another REEL. You may know this guy. He runs a show called Bollywood Bubble. He has done his own thing. Instagram is for fun. But there are so many Hateful and Homophobic comments on that REEL. I never interact with people in the Comments section, but I did this time. Someone had commented, "It's okay if you're Gay, but you should at least LEAVE like a normal human being." First of all, it is not LEAVE. It is LIVE. And secondly, I replied to him, "Why do you care? Let him do whatever the F he wants to." Shockingly, 2-3 people made a Group and started firing me. They said, "Shut the F up. Who the F are you? Even you can't define Normal, if he thinks that this is abnormal." Dear Friends, you must have the understanding about the struggle that Gay Men have in our country. They might be happy in their own house, but in real life, in the world out there, they have a lot of struggle. One has to sacrifice and face sadness in such small-small things that ya'll have no idea. I'm talking to straight people. So, everybody started firing me by forming a Group, and I was like, OKAY, I'm not going to argue. I just said politely that at least my comment was not nasty.

This is one more REEL.

I know this Sound.

'Go Away'. Yeah. People have questioned the homophobia in that REEL, but he has mentioned "Girl" on his REEL, referring to the other person as a GIRL, and not a GUY. So, I'm cool [chuckles]. And he's hot.

When I used to wear oversized shirts or t-shirts in my teenage or early 20s, my parents used to yell at me saying, "Do you want to do a Sex Change Operation? Why are you walking like women?" When I'd taken off my mustache first at the age of 14-15, my parents had almost hit me, by saying that you only do that after your Father is gone (dead). That might be true. Whatever.

However, I, often, keep scolding [sniggers] my parents that they didn't let me blossom. If I wanted to walk [enacts] like a woman, ya'll should have allowed me to do that, because like Ajay Devgn said to Kajol in a show that she's doing all of this (about selfies) in her old age, I have also started doing all of this after turning old, which is late. I cannot deny that. And that is not a very good thing or a very exciting feeling as such. If I would've been able to do all of this at the age of 25 like these guys. They're so open about themselves and their sexuality. I'M NOT SAYING THAT THEY'RE GAY OR ANYTHING. I'm just saying that the Openness or Confidence that these guys have is not what I had when I was their age. They are so fortunate. They are so blessed. I think that they should unequivocally. It is not pronounced as 'vok-lee', but 'vuh-klee'. They should unequivocally focus on WHAT THEY WANT TO DO.

Somewhere, some Gay Men are also responsible. They make such REELS and do such things that... you know...

See, saying that you want sex is one thing, but depicting Gay Men as sex-seekers and giving out that wrong message to the world creates an incorrect and an undesired impression.

AirPod falls out. Chuckles. I know. God. This is non-sense.

So, that's it for this one. We get to know from Instagram that there are many Indians who are still living in 1857 [sniggers]. In the sense, their thinking (about homosexuality) is still a little different. However, homophobia will never completely go away from this world. But if you LIKE and SHARE this video, then it might hit / click someone's Mind, which might result in that person thinking differently.

Most importantly, you don't need to hate anybody, because everyone has their own time about understanding things.

There is, also, not need to preach anything as well. I keep seeing on Instagram how people deliberately visit posts and preach about LGBT et. al. The readers neither read, understand, or change. So, just focus on your own life. You should use the Social Media after 40. I just sounded like Kajol telling Jaya Bachchan to remove her mask, and this (using the Social Media after 40) was probably the worst thing that I could have ever said in my whole life.

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Is this Gay Comedy? Or are these Instagram REELS Homophobic?