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Discrimination is done by humans. Discrimination is done by Social Media Products. Not by God.
God loves you, if you are Good.
God loves you, if you are Bad.
God loves you, if you are a Police.
God loves you, if you are a Thief. Yes, you have to pay the penance for it. That's another story.
But God loves you, if you are Straight.
God loves you (in fact, I would say doubly), if you are Gay.
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Why did I say that God loves Gay people doubly? That's because we are already love-deprived. I have - for many days, or I would say years - not received a HUG from anybody. And what's the fun in ASKING FOR a hug, isn't it? Yes, there are many married guys who want to hug me - not just hug me, but do many more things with me, but that is the big problem that will get resolved after same-sex marriages are legalized, isn't it?
In the U.S., the percentage of same-sex couples who got married was just 7.9% Ever since same-sex marriages were legalized, that percentage increased to 10.2%, which means that Gay folks started ACCEPTING themselves, and their (same-sex) relationships. If the same thing (legalization) happens in our country, then the biggest improvement that will happen is that Gay guys will stop marrying girls out of pressure.
Because we have a mentality and mindset, which is true to a great extent - that if something is not legal, it means that it is wrong. So, many guys will start accepting themselves as a result of same-sex marriage legalization, and that will not cause havoc, but, in fact, reduce it.
Yes, I'm aware that when someone says HAVOC, it refers to questions about Divorce, Inheritance, Child Adoption, Healthcare (Medi-claims, etc.). My understand about legal things is almost Zero, but those amendments, or tweaks can be definitely done gradually, over a period of time. However, a survey was conducted in 2021, in which it was found that 17% Indians are not Straight. Which is a very big (number). India's population is already so high. 17% of that is not a small number. It is a big number. As a result of same-sex marriage legalization, all the confusion and instability in youth's lives will go away. People's lives will become more stable.
However, our priority is never Stability. Our priority is never Happiness. Our priorities are to watch Porn, have Sex, watch Instagram REELS, and waste our lives.
It is very important to look at the right things from a right angle. Now, people look at Homosexuality from a religious angle, and call it wrong, however, it is also important to understand that religious concepts that are passed on by humans from generation-to-generation over thousands of years are modified over a period of time. Even if you look at homosexuality from a religious angle, it is not wrong as such. There are several proofs and evidences of it in history.
I was watching someone on YouTube saying on a stage that you cannot compare sexual enjoyment (between two males) to (heterosexual) marriages. However, [sniggers], in order to experience sexual pleasure or sexual enjoyment, you don't need to marry at all - whether you're Straight or Gay, isn't it?
Just book a hotel and go. Do whatever you want there. In fact, it is mentioned on several websites that couples are allowed with valid ID Proofs. So, that is all that you need, if that is all that you want.
It is about Energies. It is about Feelings. That I don't want just sexual pleasure from you, but I want that Care and Understanding from you. And you (two) don't need to be of opposite genders for that Care or Understanding. Same-sex partners can also match each other energy-wise, and satisfy each others' emotional needs. It is first about emotional needs.
Yes, this is another story that today's youth / young generation is unstable. People couldn't watch even that 6-minute short video that I'd made on Grindr. By the end that graph touched zero. Which means that there is no stability, because of all the technology. Those who are wasting their lives by watching Memes can never become very good long-term partners. That is also true. But that is also true for heterosexual people, isn't it?
So, it is important that we stabilize ourselves emotionally. You do not need to be RICH in order to be Emotionally Stable. In order to become Emotionally Stable, you have to understand yourself, set Goals for yourself, and focus on them. That is lacking in today's Youth, for sure. Every week, if you don't like something about someone, and you open Grindr to find a partner, then that kind of attitude will not work anyway. But at the same time, with same-sex marriage legalization, many Gay guys (or at least the ones who are trying to evaluate / find out who they are) will dare to come out of the closet. They will have a very strong reason to come out, and that will not cause social havoc, but, in fact, create a beautiful bond in the society. The subtle, invisible, or unspoken respect that I am receiving today as a Gay Man, that will become more verbal and in fact, more open.
Guys who approach me for hook-ups despite being married make me angry. I feel sad, but I feel very very angry as well. Because I have sacrificed by life. Sometimes I feel that my life is over. What is the point in finding a partner, you know. If I couldn't find someone by 40, then what is the point. My whole youth is over... blah... blah... blah... However, [sniggers] I'd commented on Karan Johar's Instagram's post, "If you want a partner, then you will surely find one. Don't give up." Because I'd heard him saying in an interview that he did not focus on his life / love life. He does not have a life partner, etc. I feel bad for that person. It is way more complicated than that, but if I can say this to Karan Johar - who is 10 years older than me - to not give up, and that he will find someone if he wants someone, then I still have hope.
That is why I say that these (married guys) want to get married, have a wife, and also want a weekend boyfriend. That's not done. It's about values. It's about ethics.
What is moral, is moral.
What is immoral, is immoral.
What is ethical, is ethical.
What is unethical, is unethical.
What is right, is right.
What is wrong, is wrong.
Now, you choose to do the wrong by calling it right - that is another discussion altogether, but
It's time to have my medicines now!
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