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Derogatory Words used in the Gay Community in India
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Some people scrape my wounds while asking me, "Sagar, you make such good content on YouTube. Still, why do you not have a million views and subscribers?" [chuckles]
So, where (some) guys in the Gay Community are busy addressing each other using words like 'C__t' and 'Wh__e', why would people be interested in watching my boring Self-transformation videos?
The algorithm knows that that is what has more perceived fun, and it knows that that is what users are attracted towards, so that is the content that it keeps pushing. So, even though I keep yelling at YouTube once in a while [sniggers], I do not really blame them. I'd been to a Shimla-Manali Tour. That was, probably, my last Group Tour. For Now, because life keeps changing [smiles]. One guy in the Group wasn't speaking without referring to 'D__k' or 'A_s'. He was using a derogatory word in every single sentence.
And there are some over-intellectual people who are like, "It depends on the kuhn·tekst." First of all, it is not (pronounced as) "kuhn·tekst". It is (pronounced as) "kon·tekst", and secondly, use those derogatory words in a good context in front of your mother or father. Will you? No, you won't, because you inherently know that - even though whether to get offended or not by a word depends on the context - a bad word is a bad word, by definition. So, don't act oversmart.
The problem with using derogatory language is that - WORDS BECOME CULTURES. As you keep saying those words, you become them over a period of time. That is what you keep attracting towards yourself - 'C__t', 'Wh__e', 'Sn___h', 'P___y', 'C___e'. That is what you become over a period of time. And if that is what you're happy becoming [sniggers], go ahead. Nobody is stopping you. God bless you.
Instead of making such Self-help videos, if I make videos on Sex Toys, they'll all come flying like fleas, but I'm not going to make such disgusting content, and the reason why I call it disgusting is that I do not encourage using Sex Toys at all [snickers]. Why? There are reasons behind everything. If I want a Life Partner (on one hand), but (on the other hand) I satisfy myself daily using an An_l Toy (for example), then that is who I continue to be. That is where I continue to head in my life. If I want something, I need to work towards that. That is what I believe in. Now, if I'm wrong - I know that my life is beautiful. I know (that) my little world is beautiful, so - I want to continue to be wrong for the rest of my life. These are the values that I want to die with.
So, have I never used any of these derogatory words? Well, hardly. Here's a confession. I have used some of these dirty words only a couple of times. That too only in front of my mother about somebody else. That too when I was extremely angry about something. And I hugely regret that. Otherwise, the maximum "abusive" words that come out of my mouth are, "Pig", or "Donkey", and I think that (much) should be allowed. I also regret using these words in this talk, but [enacts some over-intellectual people] they were used in an educational 'kuhn·tekst', so don't feel bad.
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